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4 Reasons Why Divorce Is Good

May 17, 2021 · Cherry · Leave a Comment

Each year, around 2 million couples divorce in the US. Many critics see this number as a commentary on a decaying society and focus on the downsides. While divorces come with a lot of pitfalls, especially when kids are in the mix, it’s not all bad.

In point of fact, a lot of good can come out of divorces. Can’t see any reason why divorce is good? Keep reading for four reasons that divorce isn’t always a terrible end.

1. The Marriage Isn’t a Marriage Anymore

A good marriage functions like a good partnership. Each person brings their strengths into the situation, which can help shore up any weaknesses the other person brings in with them. Ideally, you back this up with a core of shared interests and beliefs.

Unfortunately, interests and beliefs evolve over time. If both people don’t work at maintaining that core of shared interests, you can end up with a marriage that isn’t a relationship anymore. It’s just two people sharing space and adult responsibilities.

A divorce lets you exit that non-relationship.

2. Lets You Re-Focus On You

One of the major benefits of divorce is that it lets you refocus on yourself. A lot of adults sacrifice their hobbies and even their aspirations in the service of a marriage or family. A divorce largely puts you back into the center of your personal universe.

Since you no longer answer full-time to another adult, you can pursue that silly dream of becoming a painter or go back for that master’s degree you always wanted.

3. Reclaim Financial Independence

Sometimes, one spouse proves financially reckless. They rack up debt or spend the family savings on useless “investments” that never pan out.

If repeated discussions don’t curb the behavior, divorce can often prove the only way you can achieve financial independence. While it might take some time, you can recover from your ex’s bad financial moves.

4. Escape a Toxic Marriage

One of the biggest reasons why divorce is good is that lets you end a bad marriage. The sad reality is that some people find themselves locked into a relationship with a toxic partner.

Not every toxic partner will gaslight you, but they will often undercut you emotionally. You’ll become the guilty party in every argument.

Divorce is a sweet release from these toxic relationships. You can also get help managing the emotional fallout with resources like the ones found at relationshipsuite.com.

Understanding Why Divorce Is Good, Sometimes

Understanding why divorce is good, sometimes, starts with recognizing that not all relationships can stand the test of time. People do grow apart in terms of their core beliefs, which can create serious conflict. Too many people get married for the wrong reasons or at the wrong times.

Some relationships are toxic from word go. Some spouses cannot get a grip on their financial irresponsibility. In other cases, divorce is an opportunity for someone to find themselves or reclaim old dreams.

Looking for more lifestyle or relationship tips. Check out the articles over in our Lifestyle section.

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